Life isn’t fair, is it? Men seem to get all the good luck. You’ve devoted most of your 20’s to getting your career off the ground. It is not that you haven’t been dating you have, but not seriously. Now here you are 30 + and there is no long term relationship in sight.

You can actually hear your biological clock ticking away. You have precious few years to find a bloke to fall in love with, make him fall in love with you, get married, and have a baby or it’s over. You already know all of the men in your social circle. Not that they aren’t nice guys, some of them, but none of them is really your soul mate. What’s a girl supposed to do?

Consider online dating. You have the opportunity to read hundreds of profiles and look at hundreds of pictures in search of that someone that will be right for you. Maybe he lives in the same city you do, maybe he will live across the country or even across the sea! You aren’t restricted to just those men that you come in contact with personally. The possibilities are virtually endless.

Is online dating safe, you might ask? Aren’t the online dating sites made up entirely of perverts, sexual predators and crazies in assorted shapes and sizes? the short answer is, no they aren’t. Not any more anyway, if they ever were.

Perhaps that was true when online dating first started but now it is above board. It’s as safe as you make it using common sense and sound judgment. Use the same precautions that you would when meeting any stranger: ie don’t give him your full name, address or cell phone number until you feel quite safe doing so.

These days, the Internet is more controlled than previously. It is still very open, but now there are many honest business people on the Internet who regulate their websites, including dating agencies, in order to weed out the trouble makers. You can help make Internet dating safer too by informing the owner of the online dating agency if one of the members acts obnoxiously while online. I’m sure the miscreant will be banned.

Don’t rush into a personal meeting until you are certain and then make the first meeting in a public place and during the daytime. Go on, try it! Mr. Right just might be only a few mouse clicks away

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